Lifestyle or Habit Matrix
| Activity | Preference for diurnal or nocturnal activity |
| Organization | Highly organized (neat) or disorganized (messy) |
| Space | Preference for spacious living areas or confined spaces |
| Relationship | Gregarious (needs to be with people) or prefers solitude |
| Communication | Talkative or quiet and withdrawn |
| Financial | Spends money readily or saves money |
| Character | Self-expressive or restrained and shy |
Sexuality or Intimacy Matrix
| Basic attraction | Relative distance on the sexual mandala from the partner, conditioning strength of sexual attraction |
| Romance | Preferences for grooming, appearance, courtship, kissing and foreplay |
| Libidinal strength | Frequency of desire for coitus |
| Sexual liberation | Relative freedom to express sexual fantasy or inhibited |
| Role adoption | Preferences for initiating sexual behavior (dominant) or receiving it (submissive) |
| Breadth of acceptable sexuality | Openness to wide experimentation or monogamy; admits a wide range of partners and sexual lifestyles in an open relationship or restricts the relationship to a faithful commitment to the partner |
| Basic sexual identity | How each partner sees themselves sexually (e.g., monogamous heterosexual, promiscuous heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, or other type of sexual identity) |
Emotionality or Bonding Matrix
| Basic Affection | Needs a lot of touching and demonstrations of affection or does not like to be touched |
| Self worth | Needs to be reassured that the partner loves them and that they are liked and appreciated or feels aloof and self-contained |
| Dominance | Seeks to control the partner's behavior or allows the partner to function autonomously |
| Trust | Jealous and suspicious or trusting and believing that the partner is faithful and honest |
| Decision-making | Makes their own decisions and knows what they want or believe or dependent on the partner to make decisions |
| Identity | Sense of identity is defined by being in a relationship or sense of identity is found outside of a relationship |
| Relational Orientation | Co-dependent (absorbed in the partner's life and issues) or Narcissistic (absorbed in one's own Self) |
Shared Interests or Motivational Matrix
| Avocation | Preferences for hobbies or pastimes |
| Recreation | Preferences for sports or exercise |
| Travel | Preferences for vacation or likes to stay at home |
| Culture | Preferences for cultural events, entertainment, music, dancing and art |
| Community | Preferences for involvement in academic, political, religious, civic or charitable groups and involvement in the wider community |
| Social | Sense of obligation to family, relatives, or friends; commitments to participate in the lives of other people |
| Creativity | Personal expression of inspiration through artistic, literary, dramatic, or other creative outlet |
Shared Values or Moral Matrix
| Manners | Rules for public behavior, etiquette and courtesy |
| Personal Standards | Rules for personal or private behavior; evaluation of achievement or attainment of goals |
| Quality | Rules for evaluating the quality of products and performance; grades or ratings |
| Moral Criteria | Rules for evaluating right and wrong behavior, and basic character |
| Parenting | Rules for raising a family |
| Political Values | Rules for evaluating correct decisions for governing an institution, a municipality, province, state or nation |
| Religious Values | Rules from religious teaching and study of scriptures that inform values, belief and behavior |
Shared Life Direction or Choice Matrix
| Life Priorities | Relative match of partners' priorities and dreams |
| Children | Relative match of plans and dreams for having and raising children together |
| Education and Career | Relative match of partners' educational and career aspirations; willingness to accommodate the partner's needs to prepare for or change careers |
| Social and Cultural Inclusion | Relative inclusion of the partner in plans for travel, recreation, or for family and social events |
| Acquisition | Relative agreement on acquisition of housing, family transportation, appliances, and household items |
| Financial Planning | Relative agreement on spending, saving and investing money |
| Essential Values | Relative agreement on implementing family rules and religious values in the family |
Affinity or Spiritual Matrix
| Physical-Etheric | Compatibility of Rays (3rd or 7th) |
| Emotional | Compatibility of Rays (6th, 2nd, or 4th) |
| Mental | Compatibility of Rays (5th, 3rd, or 7th) |
| Personal | Compatibility of Rays (1st through 7th) |
| Soul | Compatibility of Rays (1st through 7th) |
| Spiritual | Whether partners identify with the same spiritual essence, nucleus of identity, or ensouling entity |
| Relative Spiritual Evolution | The relative distance in nodal points between the spiritual evolution of each partner |
Destiny or Karmic Matrix
| Opportunity | Circumstances of each partner's life that allows them to come together |
| Strength of Desire | Relative sexual attraction that leads the partners to romantic involvement |
| Attachment | Emotional needs that draw the partners together |
| Social Rapport | Sharing common interests permits easy conversation and spending time together in mutually enjoyable activities |
| Moral Agreement | Having common values and religious beliefs establishes a common framework for evaluation and world view |
| Manifestation | Activation of the forces of Creation through the use of will, intention, suggestion, affirmation, faith or prayer that brings the partners to each other |
| Unconscious Mind | The karmic desires and fantasies that influence choices and motivation. These karmic influences may arise from a preordained karmic plan, the awakening of karmic impressions from other life times, or a pre-incarnational decision to be with the partner. |
Whether you are selecting your life partner or evaluating someone you have begun to date, you may benefit from contemplating these 49 elements of compatibility. If you are able to assess these factors, you may be able to make a better decision about who is worthy to keep in your life, and who is genuinely not right for you.
The Relationship Compatibility Soul Reading may be valuable if you are having difficulty intuiting the metaphysical factors that impact your relationship. As some people are unable to determine upon what Rays their partners resonate and the relative distance of their ensouling entities, a Relationship Compatibility Soul Reading may help you shed light on these factors to help you understand your partner better and to inform your date and mate selection.
